
So, you’ve bravely (or perhaps slightly impulsively) raised your hand to coach a youth soccer team. Congratulations! You’ve just embarked on a journey that can be incredibly rewarding, occasionally frustrating, and definitely memorable. Maybe your child’s team was short a coach, or perhaps you felt a stirring of civic duty while watching from the sidelines. Whatever the reason, you’re now in charge of a group of energetic young athletes and the burning question echoing in your mind is likely: “Where do I even begin with this soccer coaching gig?” Don’t worry; you’re not alone. Many fantastic youth soccer coaches started exactly where you are right now – a little unsure but full of good intentions. Let’s break down the essentials of getting started and making this a positive experience for everyone involved.
First Steps: Laying the Foundation for Your Youth Soccer Season
Before you even think about drills or formations, there are a few crucial administrative and foundational steps to take. Think of this as building the sturdy base for your coaching house.
Meeting the Team and Parents
Your first point of contact will likely be the league or club administrator. They’ll provide you with a roster and contact information for the players and their parents. Reach out to the parents via email or a group messaging app. Introduce yourself, express your enthusiasm, and outline your initial plans. A brief introductory meeting with the parents before the first practice can be invaluable. This allows you to share your coaching philosophy (keep it simple and focused on fun and development at this stage), discuss communication protocols, and address any initial questions they might have about your coaching approach.
For the players, your first meeting should be all about creating a positive and welcoming environment. Keep it light, introduce yourself in an engaging way, and get to know their names. Maybe play a simple icebreaker game that involves a ball to ease them into the setting.

Understanding the League Rules and Age Group Guidelines
Every youth soccer league has its own set of rules and guidelines, especially regarding game play (number of players on the field, substitution rules, offside rules – which can vary significantly by age). Make sure you obtain and thoroughly understand these rules. Additionally, familiarize yourself with any specific guidelines for your age group. For younger youth soccer players (U6-U8), the focus is typically on individual ball skills and a general understanding of the game, with minimal emphasis on complex tactics. Older age groups (U10-U12 and beyond) might introduce more strategic elements. Knowing these guidelines will ensure you’re coaching appropriately and setting realistic expectations for your soccer team.
Setting Realistic Goals for Your Team
As a first-time coach, your primary goals should revolve around player development, fostering a love for the game, and creating a positive team environment. Avoid the temptation to focus solely on winning, especially at younger ages. Celebrate effort, improvement, and good sportsmanship. Setting small, achievable goals for each practice and game (e.g., “Let’s try to complete three successful passes in a row,” or “Everyone will try to dribble with both feet today”) can keep the players engaged and motivated in their soccer journey.
Assessing the Skill Level of Your Players
Now comes the exciting part: getting on the field with your team! Your initial practices should be largely focused on observation and basic skill assessments. This isn’t about ranking players; it’s about understanding the general skill level of the group and identifying areas where you’ll need to focus your soccer training.
Simple Observation Drills
Start with some simple activities that allow you to see how comfortable the players are with the ball.
- Free Dribbling: Give each player a ball and let them dribble freely within a defined space. Observe their ability to control the ball with different parts of their feet, keep their head up (even a little bit!), and change direction.
- Passing in Pairs: Have players pair up and practice passing the ball back and forth. Watch for their ability to make contact with the middle of the ball, the accuracy of their passes, and their footwork in receiving the ball.
- Shooting at a Target (No Goalie): Set up a target (cones, a goal if available) and have players take turns shooting. Observe their foot placement, their ability to strike the ball, and the general direction of their shots.
Fun Games with a Purpose
Incorporate games that naturally reveal skill levels while keeping the players engaged.
- Red Light, Green Light Dribbling: Players dribble when you say “Green Light” and freeze their ball when you say “Red Light.” This helps assess ball control and listening skills.
- Sharks and Minnows: Designate one or two “sharks” without balls and the rest are “minnows” with balls. The sharks try to steal the balls from the minnows, who must keep their ball close to their feet while evading. This is great for dribbling under pressure.
- Keep Away (Small Groups): Divide the players into small groups (e.g., 3 vs. 1 or 4 vs. 2) and have the larger group try to keep possession of the ball away from the smaller group. This shows their passing accuracy, movement off the ball, and ability to win the ball back.
Documenting Your Observations
After each initial session, jot down some notes about the general skill level of the team and any individual players who stand out in certain areas (either positively or needing extra support). This will help you tailor your future practice plans. Remember, every player develops at their own pace.

Practice Ideas for Your Soccer Team
Once you have a basic understanding of your team’s abilities, you can start planning your practices. Keep them fun, engaging, and focused on developing fundamental skills.
The Warm-Up (5-10 minutes)
Every soccer practice should start with a dynamic warm-up. This prepares their bodies for activity and helps prevent injuries. Examples include:
- Light jogging
- High knees
- Butt kicks
- Leg swings
- Arm circles
Incorporate a ball into the warm-up by having them dribble lightly around the area.
Skill Development Activities (20-30 minutes)
Focus on one or two key skills per practice. Break down the skill into simple steps and provide clear demonstrations.
- Dribbling:
- Cone Drills: Set up cones in a line or a zig-zag pattern and have players dribble in and out, focusing on using the inside and outside of their feet. Emphasize keeping the ball close.
- Dribbling Races: Set up two lines of cones and have players race while dribbling a ball. This adds a fun, competitive element.
- Passing:
- Target Practice: Have players pass to a stationary target (a cone, a coach’s foot). Focus on proper foot placement (inside of the foot), ankle lock, and follow-through.
- Moving Targets: Have players pass to each other while moving. Start with short distances and gradually increase them. Emphasize communication (“Here!”) and receiving the ball with the correct foot.
- Shooting:
- Stationary Shooting: Have players practice shooting at a goal (or a designated target) from a short distance. Focus on striking the ball with the laces, keeping their eye on the ball, and following through towards the target.
- Shooting After a Dribble: Combine dribbling and shooting by having players dribble towards the goal and then take a shot.
- First Touch:
- Ball Drops: Toss or gently roll the ball to players and have them practice controlling it with different parts of their feet (inside, outside, sole).
- Passing and Receiving: Incorporate receiving the ball cleanly as part of your passing drills.
Small-Sided Games (20-30 minutes)
Small-sided games (e.g., 2v2, 3v3, 4v4) are fantastic for developing tactical awareness, decision-making, and applying the skills they’ve learned in a more game-like scenario. They also maximize touches on the ball for each player. Adjust the size of the playing area and the number of players based on the age and skill level of your team.
The Cool-Down (5-10 minutes)
End each practice with some light stretching. Focus on major muscle groups used in soccer, such as hamstrings, quadriceps, and calves. This helps improve flexibility and reduces the risk of injury.
Do You Need to Have Played to Coach Youth Soccer?
This is a common question, and the short answer is: absolutely not! While having playing experience can be beneficial, it’s certainly not a prerequisite for being a successful youth soccer coach, especially at the recreational level. What is essential are qualities like enthusiasm, patience, a willingness to learn, good communication skills, and a genuine desire to help young people develop.
Check out this article from Youth Soccer POV for the top skills a youth soccer coach should have.
Many excellent soccer coaches have never played competitively. They bring valuable organizational skills, a fresh perspective, and a focus on creating a positive learning environment. You can learn about drills, tactics, and game management through coaching courses, online resources (like Youth Soccer POV!), and by observing other coaches. Don’t let a lack of playing experience deter you from stepping onto the soccer field. Your passion and dedication will go a long way.
Common Pitfalls to Watch Out For in Youth Soccer Coaching
As you navigate your first season, be aware of some common pitfalls that new coaches often encounter:
- Overemphasis on Winning: Remember that at the youth level, development and enjoyment should be the priorities. Getting overly focused on winning can lead to neglecting player development, creating unnecessary pressure, and diminishing the fun for the kids.
- Lack of Organization: Poorly planned practices can lead to wasted time and disengaged players. Have a practice plan, even if it’s a simple one, and try to keep things moving.
- Too Much Standing Around: Kids learn by doing. Minimize lengthy explanations and maximize active participation in drills and games.
- Not Differentiating Instruction: Players will have varying skill levels. Try to offer modifications or challenges within drills to cater to different abilities.
- Negative Communication: Focus on positive reinforcement and constructive feedback. Avoid yelling or criticizing players harshly. Encourage effort and improvement.
- Ignoring Individual Needs: Get to know your players as individuals. Some might be shy, others might need extra encouragement. A good coach builds relationships with their players.
- Parent Issues: Sometimes, dealing with overly enthusiastic or critical parents can be challenging. Establish clear communication guidelines early on and address concerns calmly and respectfully. Remind parents that the focus is on the kids’ enjoyment and development.

Recreational (Rec) vs. Club Level Youth Soccer Coaching: What’s the Difference?
Understanding the difference between recreational (Rec) and club level coaching is important as your coaching journey evolves.
Recreational (Youth Soccer) Coaching
- Focus: Primarily on participation, fun, and basic skill development. The emphasis is on providing an opportunity for all interested children to play soccer, regardless of their skill level.
- Commitment Level: Generally lower for both players and coaches. Practices are typically once or twice a week, and games are usually on weekends within a local league.
- Coach Qualifications: Often volunteer parents with varying levels of soccer experience. Formal coaching licenses are usually not required, although introductory courses might be encouraged.
- Competition: Less intense. The focus is on learning the game and having fun, rather than winning at all costs. Equal playing time is often a guideline.
- Player Selection: Typically based on neighborhood or school affiliation, with an emphasis on inclusivity. There are usually no tryouts or selective processes.
Example: As a Rec soccer coach, your practices might involve basic dribbling and passing drills followed by a scrimmage where you encourage players to try out the skills they’ve learned. You’ll likely rotate players through different positions to give them a taste of various roles on the field. Your game-day strategy might be as simple as ensuring everyone gets a fair amount of playing time and encouraging them to pass the ball.
Club Level (Youth Soccer) Coaching
- Focus: More on competitive play, advanced skill development, tactical understanding, and preparing players for higher levels of competition (e.g., high school, college).
- Commitment Level: Significantly higher for both players and coaches. Teams typically practice multiple times a week, and games often involve travel to play against other clubs.
- Coach Qualifications: Usually requires formal coaching licenses and certifications (e.g., US Soccer Federation licenses). Coaches often have extensive playing and/or coaching experience.
- Competition: Highly competitive. The goal is often to win games and compete in tournaments. Playing time may be earned based on skill, effort, and tactical needs.
- Player Selection: Based on tryouts and evaluations of skill, athleticism, and potential. Teams are often tiered based on ability.
Example: A club soccer coach might run highly structured training sessions focusing on specific formations, tactical movements, and advanced technical skills. They might analyze opponents, develop detailed game plans, and make strategic substitutions during games to maximize their team’s chances of winning.
As a volunteer coach, you are almost certainly operating at the recreational level. Embrace this! Your role is to introduce these young athletes to the beautiful game, help them develop fundamental skills, instill a love for physical activity, and create positive memories.
You’ve Got This!
Volunteering to coach your first soccer team is a commendable act. It might seem daunting at first, but by taking it one step at a time, focusing on creating a positive and fun learning environment, and continuously seeking out resources and knowledge, you can make a real difference in the lives of these young players. Embrace the chaos, celebrate the small victories, and remember why you signed up in the first place – to share your enthusiasm for youth soccer and help kids grow, both as players and as individuals. Good luck, Coach!
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Another resource that might be helpful for new coaches:
I developed an app called intelli.coach that automatically manages substitutions. There’s a lot to juggle as a new coach — figuring out plays, planning practices, coaching kids during games, and managing substitutions. Specifically for subs – in my experience (especially at the rec level) you’ll often also run into kids showing up late / needing to leave the field midgame which will be even more to think about.
You put in a ranked list of players into intelli.coach and it’ll forecast the game and give you lineups that are balanced skill-wise and ensure fair playtime. It also edits lineups if you have kids show up late, and generally allows you to be more focused on the game & coaching the kids.
If you’re interested, the link is here: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/intelli-coach/id1615670424